WANT TO SLAY WITHOUT A BAE?

Listen we have all been there where we want to kinda show off callout like that and same as me been in that what i called Relationship but it was more a Situationship  where one of you mainly the girl never know where she stands on.

So after being heart broken this year i decided just to spicy up just for my self cause i became a person i wasn't and i was sucked in this situation were i was not comfortable with my self and really in a bad even i can defined it psycological sadness.

o firstly what i would like to say just have in your mind that having a boyfriend is not the main thing  it just add to the whole pleasure of what life is.  same as some of us could have just decided to be single for so many reasons. however for those who still want stile like: " i dont care if i have you or not still living a wonderful and even better one kind of thinking. then here some hacks that could inspire you to help you not even minding not having a bae .

GET BUSY: so many of girl and boys today honestly they are too "boring", just rolling you thumbs the whole days in all honestly isn't going to help you much. so just find something to do if you have a good job , just studying or having a groups of good friends just something that is going to keep you occupied aswell as some new activities you can decide to join or hobbies and all this in a whole tableau never know it can be something useful in the future. And to me there is nothing less attractive if you don't just have nothing to do with your life no plans; is just not good for your well being.
Just try and be creative and do something that is outside the work environment, if this involve cooking lessons, sports, bible study BLOOGING!!. So many people that know including my best friend that weren't in a relationship and are now found her boyfriend in GMG (catholic church youth exchange).

WORK HARD FOR WHAT YOU WANT: this might be a weird one but if you just always leave thing half done that is never going to honestly take you anywhere.
So if you decided that for your newyears resolution you want to lose weight: this is  not to make him know that you are worth it or any of that crap, is just for your own self is soo much rewarding and if ever want to get in a relationship you will be too much glad if you are stable with who you are and just being that independent lady or man that anyone would love to get to know.

TREAT YOUR SELF: And by this i don't mean with your favorite junk food when you are bored or sad, but clean up  even if you got no where to go put some make up on if feeling like it, dedicate that whatever you want it to be an hr or the whole day to meditate spiritually & relax, experiment and try new products, get a new hair cut, buy something you were saving up for or even if maybe it wasn't in that weekly planned badged and create a little cheat will make you soo happy trust me. GIRL, you don't need no one to try or do something you always wanted to do!!

STOP BEIGN PRESSURED BY SOCIETY: this is what the major problem always come from, i literally got into a young unnecessary relationship because i felt like i was the only one that haven't kissed a boy at all when i was just too young for that crap and see how it ended not in the best way. So too or not too young mohave a boyfriend, who cares don't let bad people or influence lead  you in what you are not ready for, focus on what i stated earlier or whatever is your interest and live happily your single life there is no rush.

SET YOUR GOALS: Make sure you have different goals for short to long terms one, that is just going to help you not tone the weak wing once in a relationship no man or woman would want a partner like that and then you both can work together on them.

LET MUSIC HELP TO BOOTS YOUR CONFIDENCE A BIT: I don't know about you but listening to Beyonce sometimes  just makes me too much happier for allele while and is just a remainder that you areal worth it. So who ever is your helper including your self to boots your confidence just go ahead and leave them some of that responsibility for 3 minutes.

AVOID ANNOYING PEOPLE: We all like drama i am the first person that i wold never deny that but just try to stay away from that type of environments where boys or girls are always so negative about the world of love or just always moaning about their relationship status. is just not healthy for you!

AVOID F*** BOYS OR GIRLS: Single or just in that dating fase where you don't know where you both stand, don't waist your time if you see that it will take to no where. To be honest; them random "Hi x" snapchats or texts is just no sense , try your best to: block this people you actually don't need in your life that you are waisting 37 seconds to reply or ignore.

KARMA IS A B****: If ever heart broken and you are looking for all ways to make sure he knows or  she was a d***, don't waist  your time doing none of them use that energy to develop and make yourself a better person. And don't worry karma is lowkey always operating.

And finally i am not going to sit here and say oh yeah all this is all possible if you always look crusty and not take care of your self externally swell, so not saying "wear make up everyday", just try and look presentable, give your self them full on glam days.  Cause lets be real you ain't gonna "fully" slay without looking a tiny bit sexy girl.